What is happiness?
Posted on Jul 1st, 2008
by
debyemm
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for June 30, 2008:
Lucid Dream
I found myself at numerous blogs yesterday that attempted to answer this question. After visiting Stacy's blog, I realized it is not a question that any one person can answer for another person because it is subjective.
On further reflection, I realized that happiness, understanding what the "feeling" of happiness is, is useful to me. I use it as a sign post or pointer to align myself with the frequency that promotes and unfolds a higher degree of harmony in my own life.
The way that I practice this is, I will for example sit out on my back porch before the children are awake and look out at the natural world around me. Generally, it is rather quiet but the birds are singing and there is a natural movement of life all around me. I feel the early morning sunlight and look at what the sky is like.
Then, I go into a memory of a time when I felt happy. I believe this is a good use of memory. So, it is not that I relive the event that I am remembering but I bring up out of that memory into my mind and body the "feeling" of being that so very happy.
I find that when I take time to do this (and I can't manage to make the time every morning but I like doing so), my day unfolds in a much nicer way. Now, happy and nice does not necessarily promote evolution and growth - actually being challenged, bothered, prodded and poked does a much better job of spurring on growth and development but I am very lazy about it. I would choose the easy path always but my higher self doesn't allow it.
So, happiness to me is a natural harmony in my life that is totally authentic to my personal BEING.
Tagged with: QaR, happiness, Stacy, subjectivity, metaphysics, spirituality, frequency, harmony, nature, memory








Nicely written dear one….your blogs and pods bring much happiness to all.
:)
If you're truly “happy”, then however you get there is what's important. Nice to hear from you again.
Aley & Todd,
Two of my favorite, heartfelt, friends and you are the first to get here. Of course, I was a day late doing this because to be honest, I don't do th QaRs but this one caused me to reflect for hours. Stacy really prodded me on this one. She is just so clear about dualities and impossibilities and fake kinds of things. I swear she has a fake detector but part of me could not let it go, I had a real feeling that happiness mattered, even if all that she said about it (and others on her blog) were speaking truth.
Anyway, you two are the sweetest of the sweets and Todd, I know you don't get here often, just as I don't get to PFSs often but the fondness between us is real. Aley, well, you're my sis, always have been, aways will be. I know I'll even see you on the other side some day.
Deborah
love and continued happiness, dear one,
CG
I like what you say about it not necessarily promoting growth or evolution. But rest stops along the way, happiness rest stops, pretty nice rest stops, eh? :)
CG,
Seeing you here, knowing that you think of me once in awhile is a form of happiness. Wishing you the same.
Crouching Tiger,
Yeah, I can use all the happiness rest stops I can find. I don't seem to lack for growth or evolution opportunities ;-p Thanks for another perspective on happiness.
Deborah
So much fun, all the growth and evolution ops, eh? :)
The smile in your photo looks happy, content, happy. Pretty sure such feelings are the wind beneath our wings - our own and those whom we meet along the way.
Anyway, a little happiness along the steep mountains, yeah, we'll take that!